So you have landed a woman of your dreams and everything seems to be going the way you have wanted it to go. But wait, some creases may begin to appear in the perfectly smooth relationship and you may begin to doubt why everything seemed too good to be true. So do you really trust this girl or is she just using you? Well you will need to watch out for some signs to know whether she is genuinely interested in you or just using you for her physical, emotional or financial needs. The following are the 8 ways to know she is just using you:
1. Never shows any interest in meeting your family
One of the ways to know she is just using is if she never asks you about your family and never shows any interest in meeting them. This could either mean that she is a shy girl or she is just not interested in you as well. Well the chances of her being so shy are dim and it is better that you just take the hint.
2. Never takes your calls and calls you only when she needs something
If she always seems busy when you contact her and calls you only when she has something she needs, then chances are that she may not be the ideal woman who you wanted for so long. She may just be using you for her own personal agenda or needs like financial needs, physical needs or emotional needs. A genuine woman would always be there when you need her as well.
3. She never offers to pay
While it is true that a gentleman never accepts money or lets his woman pay for dinners, grocery and other such things, but if your woman never ever offers to pay herself, then this may be something to think about. If she never gets you anything and only enjoys making you pay for her shopping bills etc., then this woman may not be genuinely interested in you and may be using you.
4. Never lets you meet her family
If the girl you are dating never lets you meet her family and friends and keeps dodging your questions about her family and friends, then this could be something to think about. May be you are just not a serious option for her and that is why she wants to avoid letting you meet people she knows.
5. Keeps asking how rich your folks are
Is she constantly tries to show interest in the wealth owned by your parents and keeps insisting that you take her to your properties etc., then this is a rather clear sign that she may be more interested in your wealth than you. She may be just trying to land you or marry you for your wealth and not because she is interested in you or loves you.
6. She is mean and rude to you often
If she enjoys her meals at expensive restaurants with you or calls you at 3 am to cry over something that is disturbing her but behaves mean and rude to you other times, then she may be someone selfish who is using you for her own needs. She may not be flexible for you but may try to make you adjust according to her. This type of a girl may never be able to love you as you deserve to be loved.
7. Makes you do all her works
Is your girl is always giving you instructions and orders to pick her laundry, take her to her designer, pick her up from the station, pay her bills and make her food, then she may just be using you for your services and not your love. This girl may be used to having men serve her needs and you may just be another one for her.
8. She basically dominates the relationship
In the relationship, if she is the one to always call the shots and take major decisions, then you must consider this too as a sure sign that she may be using you. If she always dominates you, hardly cares about your feelings and acts like a princess all the time, it may be time to quit!